Saturday, November 9, 2013

November 4-8

     This week in class our teacher made a question, Who enjoys intimacy most? The answer is married couples do. We discussed the challenges and opportunities sexual intercourse can bring upon a married couples, for example some of the challenges are that either spouse comes home too tired, mad or stressed from problems at work. Some of the opportunities it gives to married couples is that it allows them to work together, feel supported, loved and protected. We acknowledged that woman are more emotionally attached to their spouse, while men are more physically attached. Woman like to be told they are loved and shown and men in the other hand like to be more physical. Beside sexual intercourse we also talked about the difference between "High Fidelity" and "Infidelity". Someone who is at a "High fidelity" level are true, loyal, pure, and give warmth to their spouse. When someone is at a "Infidelity" level they are vulnerable, sexting others, comforted by others, dishonest and most likely watch pornography. In order to keep satisfied within a married couple, you must be "one flesh, one heart." Be loyal to your spouse and make sure their needs are being met.   

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  1. You mentioned the thought that married couples enjoy intimacy most, why is this so? Men and women are obviously quite different in a variety of ways, how can our differences become opportunities in regards to intimacy? You mentioned fidelity and that when individuals become vulnerable, they can increase chances for disloyalty. Have can couples remain confident in their relationships? Is vulnerability ever positive in marriages?

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